Well, we woke up this morning to snow. Actually, I woke up to my phone vibrating in my purse letting me know that I had a text. The text said, "no school today due to the weather." So much for sleeping in on a snow day.
One of the children's favorite activities is sledding. We are fortunate that we have a very nice neighbor who allows the children the freedom to use their yard as a sledding hill. So, almost every time it snows, the kids ask if they can call and get permission to go sledding. It is always a funny thing to see Naomi, especially, dressed up in her "snow gear". She truly LOVES the snow. Funny for someone coming from a place where it NEVER snows!
I wonder what Jacob is going to say the first time he sees the snow, puts on hats and gloves and attempts to slide down a hill on a sled. Little did I know that after almost 20 years of marriage we would be doing the "firsts" with the children all over again. First time to see snow, first time to touch a big dog, first time to go swimming, first time to go to a movie theater. You name it there are so many first that come with adopting an older child from another country. Makes you stop and think about how fortunate the children are who grow up in a family and get to experience those first at a young age.
Speaking of growing up - I wanted to answer the question some of you have asked,"why are you adopting an older child"? Well, to be quite honest, when we decided to adopt Naomi I really was over the diaper stage. Marshall and I had been out of diapers for about 7 years and we really didn't want to go through the baby stage again. You have to remember that we had 3 in diapers at the same time. We actually had a party when the last one was out of diapers. We really enjoy being able to go out on dates and the little bit of freedom we have since the children are older. When we began our first adoption journey those were the reasons. Now, it is a different story....
We realize the magnitude of the need for older child adoptions. Millions of children are passed over due to the fact that they are older. I heard that in some places of the world, there are predators lurking outside the orphanages just waiting for the day the children are released so that they can "have them". You know what that means? For girls, it may mean becoming prostitutes, for boys there is nothing left but getting involved with drugs or a gang. You name it, the bad people have their eyes on the kids and they know their names.
When we got matched with Jacob last week we were given his updated information. We found out that Jacob is now the oldest child in the orphanage. He watches day after day as the younger children leave with a family. All the while, our son waits and more often than not, wonders if he will ever have that family. But, there IS hope. With God's help, your prayers and your sacrificial giving to our family, Jacob WILL have a family. Jacob will never have to experience falling prey to the predators that wait.
We are so very thankful that, with your help, we are able to write the first check to bring Jacob home - one step closer. We will be mailing that check tomorrow via priority mail. We called out and you answered. Many of you have donated your time and your money to bring our Jacob home. With that, may you know that you will have a part of Jacob's life. Forever.
There are still hurdles to jump over,and mountains to climb. One of the biggest ones is air fare for 6 going to the Philippines and 7 coming home. We stand at the base of the mountain and know that our God will provide and He will answer our cries for help. If you have ever doubted God's provision, just keep reading our blog -starting from the beginning - and I promise you will see God work.
Lorrie
Our oldest was 11 when we adopted him (and his three younger sisters). It isn't the easy road, that's for certain. However, we have now been home three years and he is such a great kid. We would have missed out if we had let his age stop us. More people should consider older children when they adopt.
ReplyDeleteBTW, ours are from Colombia and they aren't big fans of the snow :).
Anne,
ReplyDeleteThank you for speaking the truth to us again. We needed to hear that and so many others did as well. There seems to be a perception that older children are "so far gone". Not true! Please continue following our journey as your hand prints are forever in our family.
Lorrie